I personally think your better off getting a smaller system and reducing what you use. Since moving we have not bothered to connect up the TV. We don't have a fridge (we have a 50L Sundazer on order though). No dryer (the air and a clothes line works fine, even for nappies that our two kids use, and even over a Victorian winter). No dishwasher (it's a good opportunity to talk to your partner). No electric jug (the combustion stove or even a wood heater boils water with no problem). No heat lamps in the bathroom (just dry yourself quicker). And definitely no air conditioner. And all the above suggestions can even be done without a solar power system and you will save money. It is a lot more environmentally sustainable to do the dishes by hand then to spend a whole lot of energy to build a dishwasher and the solar panels to run it cleanly.
While I can see the wisdom and indeed energy savings in this approach, I must concur with others here in that this approach is exactly what puts people off solar power.
However with some alternative thinking a normal household can reduce their energy consumption hugely, without any noticeable disruption to their normal life. Not totally the same as previous, but so near as to offer no inconvinence.
Here is what has worked for us:
Tv - I record a lot of TV shows and have Media Centre computer to do this. I also own a normal use computer. I got the normal use computer fitted with a twin tuner, network installed between the media centre and this computer, and use this to record TV. Then only turn on the media centre computer to watch recorded TV and transfer the files recorded over the network. - Outcome reduced power consumption no disruption to my life.
Computer - I used to leave it running 24 hours a day as it is supposedly better for it. I turn it off when I go to work and turn it on when I come home now. Outcome reduced power consumption no disruption to lifestyle.
Oven - My wife bought a benchtop cooker thingy it uses only a killowatt of power. If there is only the two of us and she does not want to Nuke the meal, she uses this. Outcome reduced power consumption no disruption to lifestyle.
Lighting - I got the lights reconfigured in the house. Low energy globes everywhere with the options of one two or three globes on at a flick of a switch depending on use. In addition halogen downlights in work areas on seperate circuits. We usually only run one globe. Outcome reduced power no disruption to lifestyle.
Air Conditioning - All arguments aside about sustainability of air con units. In WA it is a requirement if you want to work the following day. Interesting challenge. Two storey house that the prefered company told me had to have reverse cycle every where. I dislike reverse cycle air con and didn't want it. Eventual outcome one evaporative cooler downstairs and one upstairs. Now if we are downstairs the evap down runs, if up the evap upstairs runs. Although this disobeys the second law of thermodynamics we do turn it all off during the day if we aren't home e.g. at work, and turn it on when we come home. After a few minutes the air is cool enough to be comfortable. Outcome reduced power consumption no disruption to lifestyle.
There are a lot more cuts and alternative approaches we have made and sure we always look at appliance ratings when we need replacements, however these simple changes have reduced our power from 12 units to 8 units a day/week/or month. I can't remember as it is now two years since I made all these changes.
We still use our dishwasher, however we do not have a dryer.
Power consumption can be significantly reduced by a lot of small changes and thinking differently. However we have been bought up in a lifestyle where power is cheap and no reason to worry about it.